What is a Christian to do?

[Rosie]

Never give somebody the power to make you angry or hateful since that makes you the real loser with a capital L.
Something I wonder about is if that person got nervous cause I told that person that when I was a little kid I got touched. I do not remember for sure how much I said but it was right after that she started to act funny and then soon after that I got the email saying she was sorry but she was roleplaying and is a gay man.  Maybe it is all my fault cause I made Alexandra think I'm nasty or something. I don't know. I should of just told my dad and mom but I was afraid of what they might think of me cause I never told my dad or nobody what was happening with Jeff.  It was a serious thing that I dropped on Alexandra and made her promise not to tell my mom.  I don't know. I honest don't.
I know staying mad at her or him is a losing thing cause it will hurt you and not her. I should of not told her or him what I did. Then to after I got that email from her I sent back a very mean and hateful email that Nevaeh helped me to write.
Forgiving is the Christian thing to do.  I would tell her or him I am sorry for that awful email I sent. I only did that cause I was so betrayed and hurt and I did not know what to do with them feelings.  

[Kim]

You forgive Alexandra for yourself.  Did you make her uncomfortable when you told her you had been abused by one of  your mother's boyfriends?  I sure the heck hope so.  It should make people uncomfortable but sweetheart, responsible adults would have immediately come to me.  I'm your mother.  It's my job to protect you and to help you.  That kind of "secret" that you told "her", is so damaging that any responsible and caring person wouldn't be able to keep that secret.  I can't imagine a genuine mother ignoring a child who shares that with her.  No my sweet girl, out of everything that happened, that is the biggest red flag.
I hope you know that nothing that happened to you, and it happened TO you could change how your dad and I feel about you.  Gosh Rosie, there isn't anything you could do that would make us love you any less.

[scarlette]

I'm going to pull a Donald Trump.

I hate her.

[Cathy]

No you don't.  You have to love someone before you can actually hate them (life according to me) so she/he disgusts you.